Praveenben Story

  The conflict between core values of the society and personal values cause aberration in our behavior. The people who are at the helm of affairs articulate and manipulate the systems. They are key personnel and the future of any nation lies in their hands. When we are in the   womb of mother , we perceive one world only. We cannot differentiate different forms. We face the mother first time after birth and disconnected from the mother’s umbilical cord. With the progress of life, we start identifying different forms and also identify ourselves as a separate entity. Our parents, teachers and priests imbibe in us moral and cultural values. As we grow, we cherish and experience the values of truthfulness,  love and compassion . After we complete the education we became part of the system. The system in which we are living is utterly corrupted. Indifference and exploitation are very common now a day in any system. The person who just entered into the system understands the wh...

  What is the secret of happiness?   You have a new house, new car and good job. However, you are not finding happiness. Happiness seems to be illusive. You can find   happiness by being good to others . You can find happiness by spending time with friends and well wishers. What make us human is the feeling of love and compassion. We experience the feeling of love and compassion only by extending our love and compassion towards our fellow people. We become inhuman with the lack of love and compassion.   Experience of Love   and compassion are thus the secret of happiness. June 10th 2007 is the most memorable day in my life.   I find happiness and a sense of deep fulfillment on that day.   That day was our 15th marriage Anniversary day. We used to celebrate the marriage day in a simple way in the presence of my children only. My moderate upbringing never motivated me to celebrate the marriage day ostentatiously. In view of the above, and to leave lastin...

  The power of spiritual guidance   is innate within us. The person who understands this phenomenon unleashes the infinite potential. It is intuitive in nature and a natural response to implicit apprehensions. Intuitive act is a survival mechanism available to living organisms. Tendency to question illogical rituals That was the age of questioning illogical beliefs. When I was studying in high school, I used to question the irrational beliefs of  religious priests  and illogical rituals of the elders. There was always clash of beliefs with others on various aspects of life. My teenage mysterious experience At that time, I had a mysterious experience which was not resolved until recently. We had a buffalo, which we domesticated for milk. One day when we woke up, we  found the buffalo was missing . My uncle and myself, searched for it in near by locations, but we could not trace it. While our anguish was growing one of our neighbors advised us to visit the person,...

  People, who miss the enjoyment of life, are curious to know about   life after death . A person wants to be alive tomorrow because he has unfulfilled or frustrated today. A person who lives thoroughly does not think about tomorrow or about   death and dying . Today you are a very busy person Today you are a very  busy person  articulating and controlling people around you. Your goal is achieving, no.1 status in your field. You don’t mind out-maneuver opponents to gain peak of glory. You possess super luxury cars/bungalows, many acres of land,  gold and jewel  and all sorts of physical assets. You have never-ending thirst for name and fame. You are  frustrated . Life after death Tomorrow you are dead Your loved ones who used to sit with you and accompany you,  scared to come near to you . Within a few hours, your body is spreading stink, your  body becomes nuisance  to others, and elders want to get rid of this body as early as pos...